What makes you different?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Does being poor build better character than being born rich?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Was there a British ‘genocide’ of Aboriginal Australians?

So, keep on experimenting.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

My parents force me (15yo atheist) to go to church, and there’s this thing called Small Sundays where we discuss the Bible in groups, there are questions asked about the Bible. What am I supposed to do when they ask?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

I’m 26 years old and a married woman. My husband hates my flat chest. What is the permanent solution?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

I am married for 3 years. My husband keeps pressing my boobs 40-50 times a day. He never stops though I ask him not to. What I should do to stop it?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Agree?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

What was your first experience like with a black man?

Can you make it?

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

How do you handle family members who ask for handouts?

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Do you think the beginning of movies is often better than the rest of the film? Is this a common opinion or do others share this view?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

How can one select funeral songs that truly celebrate the essence of a loved one’s life while providing comfort to attendees?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Why do atheists always argue about the existence of suffering in the world as meaning God doesn't exist when it doesn't prove anything?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

Do you think covid 19 was never as bad as it got made out to be where we needed lockdowns and restrictions?

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Why do some people never get to on a date even though they wanted to? Are they just too ugly and weird for everybody?

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

What if he’d come outside?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

What makes you YOU.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.